For the anniversary of a death

The people who knew them tell you what they remember.

Family, friends and neighbours send a story about them for the first anniversary. The family keeps a printed book of them.

Gathering is free. You won't need a card.

Hear it
Their voice plays from the page.
Read it
Every message is written out on its page.
Hold it
We deliver the printed book to your door.
Watch it

Here's how the book for Grandad's anniversary was made.

9:41
A young woman and an older man laughing at a kitchen table covered in photos
How it works

Bring everyone's stories together with one link!

Start the book

Tell us who it's for

Put in their name, and send the link to the family, the neighbours and their old friends.

Share one link

Everyone adds their story

Friends and family can capture a memory by voice, video, writing or photos, wherever they are in the world. It's easy on any phone and nobody needs an account!

We put it together

Hear it, read it, hold it

We write out every voice note and gather it all into a podcast you can play and a beautiful book you can hold.

The three questions in the book

  1. What's a story about them you've thought about this year?
  2. What do you still do because of them?
  3. What would you like the family to know about them?
The first anniversary

People talk about them again by the anniversary Mass.

Ask everyone coming to the Mass to record a story beforehand.

1

Ask the ones who came home

The cousins who flew home for the funeral are back in Boston and London now, and they can record from there.

2

Play it after the Mass

Put the podcast link on at the house after the anniversary Mass, or listen on your own when you're ready.

3

A copy for each house

You can add extra printed copies in the app, one for each brother and sister.

What people say

What people say for the anniversary of a death

Small things count, like the car they drove or the song they always sang.

"Dad grew the roses at the front from cuttings he took from his mother's garden in Kilrush. They came back this summer, and I took a cutting for my own place."
MMaihis daughter
"Jim cut the grass on the green for the whole estate for twelve years and never took a penny for it. My lads used to follow the mower round."
LLarhis neighbour
"Grandad always gave me the bottom of his ice cream cone. He said that was the best bit."
KKithis grandson, aged eight
"Jim met me off the ferry at Rosslare in 1983 with a flask and two ham sandwiches, and he was there again every Christmas I came home."
OOliverhis cousin, in London
When to start

Send the link six weeks before the anniversary

Stop collecting three weeks before the anniversary if you want the printed book there. The podcast link and the book online are ready the day you order.

In their words
In memory
It was really easy to collect the stories of Mum, and it's now a book I can give all my children that really brings her to life. Pardon the pun and dark humour!!
M
Margaret's family
made the book for her children
In memory
I love Chorus! Thank you so much for giving us a chance for so many laughs remembering Tom. The family chat was taken over talking about him again with all we had uncovered. It was beautiful.
T
Tom's family
made the book about Tom
What it costs

Gathering the voices is free. You only pay when the book is ready.

The gathering
Free
Send one link and collect the voices.
  • Every voice and every photo
  • Download every recording
  • Start as many books as you like
Start free
The voices
$45
Voice editing, and a personal podcast link.
  • Each recording tidied as it comes in
  • The original kept exactly as it was made
  • One link that plays every voice straight through
Choose the voices
The book
$99
Everything in the voices, plus the finished book to read online.
  • The finished book laid out to read online
  • Every message playable from its page
  • Every message written out beside its voice
Choose the book
The keepsake
$115
The book, printed and posted to you.
  • One printed hardcover copy
  • Posted to you
  • Everything in the book option
Choose the keepsake

Want to write your own questions? Start a blank book

Questions people ask

What can we do for the first anniversary of Dad's death?

Book the anniversary Mass with the parish office a few months ahead.

What do you say to someone on the anniversary of a death?

Say the person's name and that you're thinking of them that day. If you have a story about them, tell it.

Can we use it for the month's mind?

Yes. Start it the week of the funeral and close it after the month's mind Mass.

Can family abroad record?

Yes. They can record from anywhere in the world with the link. We post the printed book to Ireland, the UK, the US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, every EU country, Norway, Iceland and Switzerland.

How much does it cost to collect the stories?

Nothing. They can each record a message on their own phone, and it doesn't cost anything to collect them. You only pay if you want the voices edited, the book laid out or a printed copy.

Who would you like to remember?

Start the book now and invite people whenever you're ready.

Start collecting, free
Start collecting, free