A funeral guest book

Mourners leave a story where they'd sign their name.

Neighbours, old friends and the cousins abroad each leave a memory of them. The family gets a printed book of them to keep.

Gathering is free. You won't need a card.

Hear it
Their voice plays from the page.
Read it
Every message is written out on its page.
Hold it
We deliver the printed book to your door.
Watch it

Here's how the guest book for Granny's funeral was made.

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An older woman and two younger women at a kitchen table with old photos
How it works

Bring everyone's stories together with one link!

Start the book

Tell us who it's for

Put in their name, and share the link with the family.

Share one link

Everyone adds their story

Friends and family can capture a memory by voice, video, writing or photos, wherever they are in the world. It's easy on any phone and nobody needs an account!

We put it together

Hear it, read it, hold it

We write out every voice note and gather it all into a podcast you can play and a beautiful book you can hold.

The three questions in the book

  1. How did you know them?
  2. What's a story about them you'd like the family to hear?
  3. What will you remember about them?
At an Irish funeral

Hundreds of people shake the family's hand, and each of them has a story.

At the house and the funeral home there's only time for a handshake and sorry for your trouble. People record their story that evening or the week after, when they've time to tell it.

1

For people who aren't on WhatsApp

Read the link out to anyone who rings the house, or text it to them.

2

Read at the month's mind

Pick two or three for the priest or a grandchild to read on the day.

3

The voice notes you already have

Add the voice notes, WhatsApp audio, videos and photos you have of them. They go in the book beside everything people recorded.

What people say

What people say in a funeral guest book

Say your name and how you knew them, then tell the family one thing they might not know.

"My name is Sadie, I looked after Peggy at the day centre on Tuesdays. She asked about my wedding plans every week and she remembered the colour of the napkins."
SSadieher carer at the day centre
"Peggy and I did the flowers in St Brigid's. She grew the sweet pea for the May altar herself and brought it in wrapped in the Connacht Tribune."
DDoloresher friend from the flower rota
"I'm Finbarr, I was in school with Liam. Mrs Fahy drove us to the county final in Tuam in her Fiesta, with the racing on the radio the whole way."
FFinbarrher son's school friend
"It's Ellie. Auntie Peggy taught me to knit the summer I broke my leg, and I wore the scarf we made all through secondary school."
EEllieher niece
When to start

Send the link before the removal

Share it the day the death notice goes up, and keep the book open for as long as you need. The podcast link and the book online are ready the day you order, and the printed book takes about three weeks to reach you.

In their words
In memory
It was really easy to collect the stories of Mum, and it's now a book I can give all my children that really brings her to life. Pardon the pun and dark humour!!
M
Margaret's family
made the book for her children
In memory
I love Chorus! Thank you so much for giving us a chance for so many laughs remembering Tom. The family chat was taken over talking about him again with all we had uncovered. It was beautiful.
T
Tom's family
made the book about Tom
What it costs

Gathering the voices is free. You only pay when the book is ready.

The gathering
Free
Send one link and collect the voices.
  • Every voice and every photo
  • Download every recording
  • Start as many books as you like
Start free
The voices
$45
Voice editing, and a personal podcast link.
  • Each recording tidied as it comes in
  • The original kept exactly as it was made
  • One link that plays every voice straight through
Choose the voices
The book
$99
Everything in the voices, plus the finished book to read online.
  • The finished book laid out to read online
  • Every message playable from its page
  • Every message written out beside its voice
Choose the book
The keepsake
$115
The book, printed and posted to you.
  • One printed hardcover copy
  • Posted to you
  • Everything in the book option
Choose the keepsake

Want to write your own questions? Start a blank book

Questions people ask

What can we use instead of a funeral guest book?

Keep the signing book at the door and put a card with the link beside it. People who sign can add a story later from their phone.

What do you write in a funeral guest book?

Your name and a few words of sympathy is the custom. If you have a story about them, add it, and the family can come back to it after the funeral.

How do mourners leave a message?

They open the link and record, write or add a photo. They can each record a message on their own phone, and it doesn't cost anything to collect them.

Can people who couldn't come to the funeral leave a message?

Yes. They can record from anywhere in the world with the link. We post the printed book to Ireland, the UK, the US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, every EU country, Norway, Iceland and Switzerland.

What if someone isn't ready to record?

They can come back to the link any time, or write their memory instead.

Who would you like to remember?

Start the book now and invite people whenever you're ready.

Start collecting, free
Start collecting, free