For a surprise party

The guests record their messages behind their back.

Family, friends and the neighbours from the road each record a story about them. At the party you give them a book of every message.

Gathering is free. You won't need a card.

Hear it
Their voice plays from the page.
Read it
Every message is written out on its page.
Hold it
We deliver the printed book to your door.

The world gets better when people hear the good things we say about them.

We are enabling over 1 million people to say it. Share the stories, love and gratitude. Your voice is what makes the world's greatest gift.

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Watch it

Here's how Mam's surprise 70th book was made.

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A red linen Chorus book with For Mam's 70th on the cover, tied with a ribbon
How it works

Bring everyone's stories together with one link!

Start the book

Tell us who it's for

Put in the birthday person's name, then send the link to the guests.

Share one link

Everyone adds their story

Friends and family can capture a memory by voice, video, writing or photos, wherever they are in the world. It's easy on any phone and nobody needs an account!

We put it together

Hear it, read it, hold it

We write out every voice note and gather it all into a podcast you can play and a beautiful book you can hold.

The three questions for a surprise party

  1. How do you know them, and how long has it been?
  2. What's a story about them they'd laugh at?
  3. What would you like to say to them on the night?
Keeping it a surprise

The birthday person never sees the link.

Make a new WhatsApp group for the guests and post the link there. Say twice that it's a surprise!

1

The guests who can't come

Friends who are working that night or living abroad record from wherever they are.

2

One cover story

Agree one cover story with everyone. The person minding the birthday person on the day needs to know it too.

3

Video if they want

Guests can film a video instead of a voice note. You choose whether the book takes voice, video, writing or all three.

What people say

What people say in a surprise party book

Tell them one thing about them that the rest of the room doesn't know.

"Mary, it's Síle. I had the invitations hidden in the hot press for a fortnight."
SSíleher sister
"Happy birthday Granny. I knew about the party since the summer and I kept it a secret the whole time."
EEndaher grandson, aged nine
"Mary, it's me. I've been trying to get you out of the house since four o'clock, and I told you it was the car."
BBartleyher husband
"Mam, I'll be home on the twentieth of December and I've booked us lunch in Kenny's. Happy seventieth."
KKieranher son, in Toronto
When to start

Start about a month before the party

The printed book takes about three weeks to reach you. If you're starting later, the podcast link and the book online are ready the day you order.

In their words
A Christmas gift
We gave a book of stories about Mam to her for Christmas and she said it was the best gift she had received. There were some stories she had never heard! She felt really surrounded by love.
K
Kathleen's family
gave her the book at Christmas
What it costs

Gathering the voices is free. You only pay when the book is ready.

The gathering
Free
Send one link and collect the voices.
  • Every voice and every photo
  • Download every recording
  • Start as many books as you like
Start free
The voices
$45
Voice editing, and a personal podcast link.
  • Each recording tidied as it comes in
  • The original kept exactly as it was made
  • One link that plays every voice straight through
Choose the voices
The book
$99
Everything in the voices, plus the finished book to read online.
  • The finished book laid out to read online
  • Every message playable from its page
  • Every message written out beside its voice
Choose the book
The keepsake
$115
The book, printed and posted to you.
  • One printed hardcover copy
  • Posted to you
  • Everything in the book option
Choose the keepsake

Want to write your own questions? Start a blank book

Questions people ask

How do I collect messages for a surprise party without the person finding out?

Guests record through the link you send them, and every message comes to you. The birthday person hears nothing until you play it.

What should guests say in a surprise birthday message?

Their own memory of the birthday person. If they're stuck, the three questions in the book give them a start.

How many guests can record?

As many as you like. There's no limit on how many people record.

Can the printed book be posted abroad?

Yes. We post the printed book to Ireland, the UK, the US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, every EU country, Norway, Iceland and Switzerland.

Can everyone chip in?

Yes, if you turn chip-in on. Everyone who records can put money towards the book and saves their card. Their cards are charged when you go to pay, and it comes off what you pay. If you don’t finish paying, their money goes back within a week.

Who are you surprising?

Start the book now and invite people whenever you're ready.

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